Hmm, lama sekali tak post hahaha.
Meskipun memang nggak ada yang baca, tapi rasanya sedih liat jumlah post bulan lalu yang amat minim. Jangan-jangan kemampuan menulis aku juga moody lagi adanya -______-
Tadi lagi liat blog seseorang. Di post terbarunya, dia menceritakan bahwa dia telat datang saat UAS bahasa Inggris, dia anak kuliahan. Then, dia sebenernya nggak bisa ngerjain tuh soal-soal UAS, mana waktunya mepet pula. Suddenly, sahabatnya dia ngasih jawaban. Yah, as you suggest, dia pakelah itu jawaban, dan akhirnya UAS dia penuh. Dan dia sangat berterimakasih pada si sahabat dan di penghujung post dia menegaskan bahwa sahabat lebih penting diatas hoki dan skill. *you know in what case he said*
But, this is my opinion. It's your problem if you don't have a same opinion with me. I don't care. Do you think he/she is your 'true' bestfriend? I don't think so. I agree that having bestfriend is true way in life. I know, maybe the reader will say, 'hey, this is a simple problem'.
Then, I will say, 'you are wrong. This is big complicated problem'. I know, if you have bestfriends, you will help them. Everywhere, whenever they need you. But, can you imagine this? You can help them NOW, but, how about tomorrow? Two years later? Or twenty years later? Can you help them? What does bestfriend mean for you?
I just wanna say that, being bestfriend isn't always keeping your friend in a 'safe' way. Being bestfriend means that you'll safe them in true way, not a safe way. Being bestfriend, sometimes, you have to make your friend in a bad case, so they will get mature.
Yah, I wanna say that being friend means that you get happy with them, have a same feeling, or hobby. But, you have to bring them in a better way of life if they are getting wrong. One year ago, Teh Anis give me worth advice. I can't express it in English, so, lemme tell you in Indonesian.
"kalau sekarang kamu ngerjain semuanya sendiri. Kamu bantuin terus temen kamu ngerjain ini itu, percaya sama saya, kalau sepuluh tahun lagi dia gagal, itu salah kamu. Salah kamu, makanya dia nggak bisa apa-apa. Salah kamu, dia nggak belajar apapun. Salah kamu, dia jadi orang nggak berguna. Jadi, segimanapun susahnya dia bekerja, biarin, bantu, tapi jangan seluruhnya, karena dia juga butuh untuk sukses. Jangan mau semuanya beres cepet, tapi temen kamu nggak dapet apapun dan nggak bisa ngapa-ngapain "
Meskipun memang nggak ada yang baca, tapi rasanya sedih liat jumlah post bulan lalu yang amat minim. Jangan-jangan kemampuan menulis aku juga moody lagi adanya -______-
Tadi lagi liat blog seseorang. Di post terbarunya, dia menceritakan bahwa dia telat datang saat UAS bahasa Inggris, dia anak kuliahan. Then, dia sebenernya nggak bisa ngerjain tuh soal-soal UAS, mana waktunya mepet pula. Suddenly, sahabatnya dia ngasih jawaban. Yah, as you suggest, dia pakelah itu jawaban, dan akhirnya UAS dia penuh. Dan dia sangat berterimakasih pada si sahabat dan di penghujung post dia menegaskan bahwa sahabat lebih penting diatas hoki dan skill. *you know in what case he said*
But, this is my opinion. It's your problem if you don't have a same opinion with me. I don't care. Do you think he/she is your 'true' bestfriend? I don't think so. I agree that having bestfriend is true way in life. I know, maybe the reader will say, 'hey, this is a simple problem'.
Then, I will say, 'you are wrong. This is big complicated problem'. I know, if you have bestfriends, you will help them. Everywhere, whenever they need you. But, can you imagine this? You can help them NOW, but, how about tomorrow? Two years later? Or twenty years later? Can you help them? What does bestfriend mean for you?
I just wanna say that, being bestfriend isn't always keeping your friend in a 'safe' way. Being bestfriend means that you'll safe them in true way, not a safe way. Being bestfriend, sometimes, you have to make your friend in a bad case, so they will get mature.
Yah, I wanna say that being friend means that you get happy with them, have a same feeling, or hobby. But, you have to bring them in a better way of life if they are getting wrong. One year ago, Teh Anis give me worth advice. I can't express it in English, so, lemme tell you in Indonesian.
"kalau sekarang kamu ngerjain semuanya sendiri. Kamu bantuin terus temen kamu ngerjain ini itu, percaya sama saya, kalau sepuluh tahun lagi dia gagal, itu salah kamu. Salah kamu, makanya dia nggak bisa apa-apa. Salah kamu, dia nggak belajar apapun. Salah kamu, dia jadi orang nggak berguna. Jadi, segimanapun susahnya dia bekerja, biarin, bantu, tapi jangan seluruhnya, karena dia juga butuh untuk sukses. Jangan mau semuanya beres cepet, tapi temen kamu nggak dapet apapun dan nggak bisa ngapa-ngapain "
